Dear Christian Counselor, if your counsel has stalled or you are not equipped to help the couple, the answer is not be divorce. Do not discount the beauty of reconciliation that is found in restoring marriages.
What the Bible Says about Divorce and Remarriage
Wayne Grudem studies the complicated topics and ethics of divorce and remarriage from a Christians perspective. What does Scripture say about marriage, divorce, and remarriage? Is divorce permissible? If it is permissible, then is remarriage also permissible?
Restorative Separation
Biblical restorative separation is a process of removing oneself from sin and dysfunction and choosing not to participate or enable this sin and dysfunction for a period of time with the goal of restoring the marriage to God’s intent in marriage.